Many people on our planet are dreaming of a successful life, prosperity, good financial income and many more.
However for many of them, these desires still remain the dream. Nothing changes. You might have watched how other peoples – your friends, neighbors, acquaintances are flourishing, but in your life nothing changes.
You might be wondering if they have some magic trick to achieve this kind of success and are striving to get this formula.
Today Vogue Portal will reveal the most simple, yet most effective solution on a road to success, which obviously should begin from self love development.
Revealing the main subject
The cornerstone of this story will be – YOU. Yes, you are the alpha and omega of your universe.
If you are interested in modern theories, you might have obviously heard about quantum physics theory, where the subject changes its behaviour based on the observer. It is called the observer effect, where the fact observing a situation or phenomenon necessarily changes it.
So what relation does it have to our theory of success?
Actually in your universe the subject and observer is you. Once you were born, this universe was revealed to you. Without you you haven’t noticed sky, ground, trees, people, objects around. Without you they would not have existed for you. You are the subject, but you are the observer at the same time.
If you are certain that everything around you matters for you, have you ever wondered how much you matter for yourself? How important are you? If you did, what have you done for yourself? Personally for you, not for somebody else, to impress them, by making some kind of image of yourself, but what did you do for yourself? And the second question is how frequently have you done it?
If you want to be valuable for somebody, some group of people or even society, are you valuable at least for yourself at this stage? If yes, how can you prove it?
Even if you are not, but you wish to, Vogue Portal will explain simple but effective ways to raise self love.
First and most obvious – you should get rid of unhealthy habits. If you are addicted to alcohol, drugs, tobacco or sugar, stop the consumption immediately. If you can’t manage it by yourself, apply for professional assistance.
Second, you need to add to your routine actions that improve your basic values as a person.
You can not achieve anything in life if you are not able to manage something. But how can you manage something if you can’t manage even yourself – the most simple thing in life.
Let’s say you won’t go to university if you haven’t passed the first class of elementary school.
Cornerstone of self love development
So here are the basic routines you should add to your life:
- Take care of yourself on a daily basis – this imply basic things like:
- Taking shower
- Making your haircut
- Making makeup
- Cleaning the house you live in. Remember this is your primary space. If you can’t afford to make it nice, at least it should be clean.
- Introduce following basic routines on a weekly bases, by visiting:
- Hairdresser
- Nail artist
- Esthetician for waxing
- Gym 3-4 times a week.
If you can’t afford to visit a specialist, manage these routines by yourself at first stage, afterwards you’ll get sufficient funds to visit the salons.
If you do not have time for any of the above mentioned, due to your job, children etc., reread once again introduction to this article, cancel your other tasks and take care of yourself first.
- Add some pleasant home based rituals, they do not request significant investment, just a couple of dollars, but will bring you significant effect. Once or twice a week, in a relaxing mood, other tasks are not allowed with these routines:
- Make a paper face mask skin care.
- Meditate
- Light an aromatic candle and rest with yourself in silence for at least 30 min. try to relax. Think about yourself, what do you want in life, listen to your body, what does it need?
- Do yoga or other exercise
- Buy natural flowers for your bedroom
- Listen to music you love for 30 min.
- Read the poetry for 30 min. – yes, this is not a joke. Poetry brings words in an innovative, beautiful way. It might calm you down. Poetry is the oldest form of literature. Poetry has been with humankind for millennia, so please don’t neglect this form of art.
- Last but not the least, pay attention to your wardrobe.
Vogue Portal is about fashion, you can find a number of recommendations of the latest trends here. Your style should represent not your current state, but the one you are dreaming of. Do you want to live on the Upper East Side of Manhattan? Then wear the style their inhabitants do. Do you want to have a luxurious life? You should have well-groomed, classic style outfit. You don’t have to buy Chanel or Louis Vuitton clothes, but at least try to afford 1-2 pieces of good designers, or shop at a high discount at outlets.
If you read all these and they seem complicated to you as you do not have time and energy for these elementary routines, please just start doing them and you’ll notice how energy will flow into you from the surroundings. You’ll notice an extra boost of new energy just within a month. Perception of yourself will significantly improve and you might even realize this mystical self love feeling. If you are wondering on rising vibrations, check Vogue Portal’s article here.
Please share the outcome with us in the comments below. Have these recommendations increased your energy, or improved any aspect of life?